HangHang wrote:Your ways is diffence with my ways  .... You took the moneys and save it for them later  ....

It's not the way to teach them " responsibilities " . But to me , you are not teaching them but " Tham tiền " . Now you say that  ..... What if you don't give it back to them ??

Let' s put it this way .... Later he get merry to someone you don't like but hate ... I don't think you will give them all the moneys you keep .

I allways teach my daughter .... She have to make full responsibility by herself  , made your own desision if it 's wrong mom will fix it .

KatN wrote:everyone has their own way of manage their finance and cách dạy con. No one is right and no one is wrong.  At the end of the day, you must expect to live with your beliefs and actions.  No one cares, period.